Thursday, January 24, 2013

The Power of Prayer

I wrote this about a month or so ago for a lady I know that asked me to guest blog for her.  Hope you enjoy!


The Power of Prayer

We are all accustomed to prayer, whether that be at church on Sunday mornings, beside our beds before we go to sleep at night, or even at a football game before the kick-off.  Whatever the circumstance, we all know what prayer is.  We know the gist of why we do it and, most of us, know how to pray.  But many people, myself included, sometimes ask the questions, "Does God hear me?" or "What difference is this going to make?"  But I am here to tell you that prayer is something powerful. 

 I have grown up being a very independent person.  I have never been one to want to ask for help when a task needs to be done.  I usually just figure it out and do it.  So, as you can assume, asking in prayer and having faith that God will take care of a situation or fix a problem, well, it is very hard for me, yet I have still experienced the power of God through prayer.  I went on my first overseas mission trip to Kenya in Africa this last summer.  There were six of us that went on this trip together, but, for a day a week for about four months prior to the trip, we met and prayed.  We prayed for the people that we would meet and for the people who flew our planes.  We prayed for the people who prayed for us and thanked God for them every single day.  We prayed for lives to be changed through us and for our own lives to be changed.  We prayed for safety and for comfort in that foreign land, and every single prayer we prayed was fulfilled.  There are so many instances where we could have been hurt or where something terrible could have happened, but it never did.   We saw the hand of God in every single moment during that trip and even before, during the preparation time. 

Although we see positive results when we ASK in prayer, asking is not the only reason we should pray.  We pray for different reasons:  to ask, to thank, to tell, to listen.  But if you do not know how to pray, how do you?  Or if you do know how but are at a loss for words, what do you say?  Well, God has equipped us with a template, for lack of a better word.  This prayer "template" is found in Matthew
6:9-13. 

Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name.
Your kingdom come.
Your will be done,
     on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our debts,
     as we also have forgiven our debtors.
And do not bring us to the time of trial,
     but rescue us from the evil one.

I bet, for many of you, as you began to read it, you said it in your mind without actually reading it.  You may have changed a few words, but this prayer has become so accustomed to us that we have forgotten the true meaning behind it.

In one of my classes at college this semester, we read a book entitled Kingdom Come:  How Jesus Wants to Change the World.  It is written by a pastor by the name of Allen Mitsuo Wakabayashi and in the book he discusses this prayer and explains its meaning far better than I ever could:

     Earlier, I had grown very tired of the Lord's Prayer.  Having been raised in a church that said it week after week, it just felt like meaningless ritual.   After all, I thought, isn't it better to just pray what I feel, to pray what spontaneously wells up within my heart and mind?  Rote prayers smacked of institutionalism and deadness to me. 
     But now it makes so much sense to me why in Jesus' model prayer for us we are instructed to pray, "Your kingdom come.  Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven." [ . . . ] [W]e are praying for God's power and reign to invade the present.  And we are also praying for the kingdom to come in all its fullness one day.  The entire prayer, in fact, is an expression of the prey-er's desire to live life according to the kingdom of God.  We petition our King for daily provision ("Give us this day our daily bread"), we ask for the forgiveness of God's reign as we seek to live that forgiveness out with others ("And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors"), we ask for the King's leading to keep us from sin and evil ("And do not bring us to the time of trial, but rescue us from the evil one") and we acknowledge God's eternal reign ("For the kingdom and the power and the glory are yours forever").

I just find that excerpt so wonderful!  He says it exactly right.  We should never again have the excuse, "I don't know how to pray."  Here is a perfect prayer that you can follow.  And not only follow it, but use it as a fire starter; use it to spark your prayer imagination and veer off into its depths next time you are kneeling beside your bed. 

I also would like to say, don't be careful with what you pray for.  I'm sure you have heard, "Be careful what you wish for."  Well, don't be careful when you pray.  Pray with boldness and faith.  If there is something on your heart, let God have it.  He can handle it.  If you are scared to ask for strength because you think you are a weak person, don't be.  If you think you're strong and find you are weak, don't be scared to lean on God.  He can handle it.  Prayer is like God's portal into your heart, and your portal into his arms.  God did not create us so that he could watch us struggle and only kind of get through life; he created us so that we could excel and succeed in life with his help.  Don't be afraid to ask for it!

And to finish up, here is a prayer that is "not careful":

“Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love,
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console,
to be understood as to understand,
to be loved, as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.”
― St. Francis of Assisi    


  

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

happiness.

If someone asked you if you were happy, what would you say?  

If you said yes and then they, in turn, asked you why, what would be your response?  

Happiness is a term, an emotion, that has become perverted.  If you were to ask an American what would make them the happiest they would probably say money, success, or maybe fame and popularity.  But what is real happiness?  IS it money and success, or is it something more than that?  Is it up to us whether we are happy, or does it depend on our circumstances?

Well, I believe that true happiness comes from relying fully on God.  It comes from being content with what you have; it comes from living completely in God's will for your life.  Now, does that mean that there won't be hardships along the way?  No.  That just means that in those times, you have someone that will always be there for you.  He picks you up, dusts you off and then God uses those trials to strengthen you.  I know that is such a cliche thought, but it is so true.  Some of the hardest times in my life have produced my happiest moments.  In Romans 8:28, Paul discusses how all things work together for good, not that all things ARE good.  In the end, happiness manifests itself in the situations and circumstances and the pain, fear, and anxiety slowly diminish into nothing.  God is the reason for happiness.

So, don't allow the American Dream to become the epitome of happiness.  Don't allow happiness to be something that only lasts a few days.  Let happiness be something that you can only find in one place; let it be found in Jesus Christ.            

"Happiness resides not in possessions, and not in gold, happiness dwells in the soul."
-Democritus




Sunday, July 29, 2012

Back in the States

So we are all back home and resting up.  I slept like a little baby last night after our 34 hour travel session.  We could not have asked for better travel (minus the hour delay in Atlanta).  That is all thanks to our wonderful Lord and the prayers that were said for us.  So thank you, everyone, for the prayers.  I believe I can speak for all 6 of us when I say that we left part of our hearts over in Kenya with those kids.  That was the most amazing experience I have ever had and I can't wait to go back.  I miss all of their little faces and their little giggles.  You can see God's hand working in their lives and the lives of the house parents at Mattaw.  Those house parents were, potentially, the most spiritually grounded people I have ever met.  They all have their own kids yet they are willing to raise 12 or 13 kids that are not their own and they love them all the same.  It's truly an amazing thing.

They taught me this week to really appreciate everything I have.  I know that's a cliche thing to say, but it is so true.  Mom asked one of the house moms, Grace, what she thought they needed:  clothes, shoes, food, etc.  She said they needed nothing.  They live in concrete buildings with electricity only sometimes.  The women cook over little coal stoves and hand wash clothes in buckets and hang-dry their clothes on barbed wire fences.  They have meat only a few times a week and have poridge for breakfast almost every morning.  And she said they needed nothing.  They get it.  They really get it.  They realize that God has provided everything they NEED.  They have everything they NEED. 

Going over their I thought we were helping them by taking things we THOUGHT they needed.  We did help them and some kids did need new clothes, but they provided us with the things our team needed; we experienced joy, true thankfulness, and, overall, we experienced Jesus.  That was the best part of the entire trip! 

We met so many wonderful people and I can't wait to go back!  :) 

Thank you all again so much for the prayers and everything that you did for us.  I attached a link to my Flickr page that has some pictures from our trip.  I tried to pick some of the better ones, but if you have Facebook, I have all 312 pictures posted.  My name on there is just Meghan Scholtens and you should be able to view them even if you're not my friend!  Enjoy! :)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/52995884@N03/

Lots of Love from Team 6!
-Meghan, Alleshia, Kim, Jeff, Marci, and Lydia :)

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Homeward Bound

Hi everyone! Sorry about the small amount of blog posts. WiFi was sketchy this week because of all the rain, but I will definitely post all the pictures when we get home. We are back in Nairobi tonight and had an interesting ride here. It was a 7.5 hour drive in a smallish van. The roads are in horrible shape and our driver really didn't know English...I got car sick for the first time in my entire life, but it was allllll worth it! :) Kenya is the most beautiful place I have ever seen and I can't wait to come back! I'm already planning my trip in my head! We had American food for dinner and it was really good, but I'm going to miss all the rice! I'm ready to warm up, too! I will update some more when we get home, but we say goodbye to Africa in about 24 hours. Continue to pray please!! And thank you so much for all you have already done! :)

Saturday, July 21, 2012

Waking Up In Africa

It is 6:30 on Sunday morning. Jeff and I are sitting on the steps of the main building at our guest lodge and watching the sunrise. It is my second African sunrise and I don't think I've ever experienced something quite like it. We had a wonderful day at Mattaw yesterday and met so many adorable kids! Wi-Fi was a little sketchy last night so I couldn't upload pics off my camera, but I will try again later. We are headed to church in about an hour and a half to go see the kids again! Our lodge is wonderful! Kim and Jeff slept in a safari tent last night and we showered with water heated by fire wood...that is totally the way to go!:) I'll try and do this again tonight. God bless and much love!! -Meghan, Alleshia, Kim, Jeff, Marci, and Lydia :)

Friday, July 20, 2012

Hi everybody!  This is going to be quick, but a litle update . . . we are sitting at the airport in Amsterdam right now waiting for our flight to Nairobi!  We are so excited and so tired, hoping to catch a few hours of sleep on the plane.  It is 10:22 a.m. on Friday the 20th here, but 3:21 a.m. on Friday in Berryville.  We just ate "breakfast" at McDonald's, a nice treat.  They don't use ice in their drinks and Jeff said the Coke was just not the same, "It's like syrup with no carbonation."  Let's just say we'll be ready for American food when we head home.  ;)  We're camped out beside the huge mass of people waiting to get on this plane . . . looks like it will be a double-decker!  This has been a long 15 hours and we still have 8 to go, but we are enjoying the adventure and can't wait to see what God has in store for us!!  Thank you, still, for your prayers and support!  Keep them coming! 
With love,
Meghan, Alleshia, Marci, Lydia, Kim and Jeff

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Almost There!

16 hours to go and I still can't believe it! 

Tonight, Southern Heights Baptist Church held a special service for us that are taking off on this adventure tomorrow.  They showed the Mattaw Promo video and then introduced us specifically.  We were allowed to share about our hopes for this trip and how much we appreciate the community's willingness to support us financially and spiritually.  After Brother Scott shared a devotion, people were encouraged to come to the front where the 6 of us sat and they layed hands on us and prayed specifically for each of us.  It was very encouraging and special for us.  It was awesome to experience the support physically from all the people who care about us.  Thank you all, again!

We still ask for your prayers as we head out at about 8 tomorrow morning.  Our flight departs from Fayetteville to Atlanta, GA, Atlanta to Amsterdam, Amsterdam to Nairobi and then from the Nairobi airport to an airport about an hour from the orphanage.  Lots of changes and foreign languages . . . please pray!  :) 

If you read my blogs and would like to leave a comment or share your thoughts and don't have a Google account, you can e-mail me at meghan.scholtens@gmail.com and I have a Facebook and Twitter (@MeghanScholtens). 

Thanks so much!!  Lots of love from Kenya Team 6 and we thank God for you every day!
-Meghan, Alleshia, Marci, Lydia, Kim, and Jeff